i'm busted...

My husband "found" my blog.

Don't get me wrong... it's not like I've exactly been hiding it from him. What does he think I'm doing in front of the computer for hours on end?? If I could have been looking at porn all this time, instead of pouring my heart and soul into my writing... man, lost opportunities!

To my credit, I have mentioned my blog many times. It surprised me immensely to realize that my husband does not, contrary to my popular belief, hang on my every word. He's missed a paragraph or two of my rambling conversations with him when he's half asleep?!? Who'd have thunk it??

Of course the whole issue came up because he wanted to lodge a complaint. After reading my blog in its entirety, he felt the only times I mentioned him, reflected negatively on him. I politely suggested that in the future he refrain from questioning my devotion to our marital vows.

Actually, what I believe I said was, "Well then you apparently read my blog with the same amount of attention you give our conversations about my blog." Or something like that.

He certainly missed this entry in his perusals. The most important thing he missed, however, is what I don't write. You will find no husband bashing here. I wish the same could be said of other blogs out there. Sure we have our moments, like any married couple does, but there's no "scorekeeping" done... especially not on the world wide web for the wide world to see.

I love my husband deeply. I love the sacrifices he makes to afford us the life we have. I love the opportunities his hard work makes available to us. And I would love him just as much if we were living in a trailer somewhere eating potted meat on Saltine crackers. We were meant to be together. We were meant to honor each other. And thusly... no bashing here.

So, rest assured honey (and other readers). If any stories about you appear here with a negative connotation, it is simply for humor's sake. You know I can't resist imparting others with a good chuckle. In the meantime, I'll try to write a little more often about how wonderful you really are.